My SiMpLe LiFe

2009-11-09T07:20:00.000-08:00

dar dar complain that i never upload his photo for alice surprise party.. haha. he was our poor chauffeur who had to send all of us home at 3am.. heez.. thkss dar... haha. he is forever the attention seeker..

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hmmm..

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This is cute.. hahaha.. i duno how to describe Kelvin..!!~~ hahah

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the cute boy and the witch... xia looks scary and yet funnie. haahha

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i think the 2 girls look high????

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ah jun... trying to act angelic.. =)

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Jiao looks so sad when she is supposed to be happy.. kissed by 2 pretty pinkies..

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us at the thai disco sabai sabai...

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funnie and cute Dar dar..

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Guys of the Night..~~

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Girls for the night...~~

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the devil and the cute angel couple.. haha.. they were late..!!~~

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Halloween 2009 with the pinkies..~~

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but it turns out to be a nightie and cardigan with cosmetics and accessories.. heez..

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This crazy girl.. she thought we planted some funny surprise in the box.!! and she was super super scared.. haha. and we all played along by acting that we are so scared.. and pushed her to the box.. haha..

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Happie Birthday our dearest alice.!!~~ after 7 hours of OT in office, she still look as pretty.. envious..

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us with the birthday girl and her super nicee hubby!!~~

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And.. Finally the birthday girl is back..!!!

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Preparing for the surprise..!! Birthday girl is returning soon.. so exciting.. we are hiding behind the door.. we waited for the birthday girl for 7 hours..!!~~

2009-11-09T06:41:00.000-08:00

We were too bored.. soo Dar asked me to pose.. to look as if i am shooting an advertisement.. whahaha.. think we are just a v "boliao" couple.. hahah...

2009-11-09T06:39:00.000-08:00

A typical boring sat.. watching hk drama at Dar's house before gg for our dinner and movies at JP...

The Proposal..

2009-10-13T07:57:00.001-07:00

I am tired..!! But i still need to write all these down..!! wanna write down something happy... Dar proposed..!! and is realli a very big big surprise.. i was really shocked.. actually i did sense that he might do it maybe end of year after Korea trip or during our anniversary next yr.. but little did i expect.. he will do it now... but still i am happy!

actually the proposal was an impromptu decision that he last min decided..

story goes on...

Last friday.. dar waited for me at vivo city.. i was having dinner with my friends mingli and huey min.. and dar insist that he don't want join.. and he really insist.. saying that he need to shop for some new clothes.. after that at 10pm, he finally called me asking me my whereabouts.. and he came to look for me.. Actually he had already bought a ring, but the ring is not ready, so he will collect it next thurs at jurong Point Soo Kee.

8th oct 2009.. I was working OT. Dar, as usual, was waiting for me at JP... after i reached.. we proceed to my house for dinner with my mom.. after dinner, me and dar were playing with Harmony and Duckie.. (FYI, Harmony and Duckie are 2 soft toys)... after that Dar was asking me about flats as Xia and Wyn are applying for the half yearly balloting. After playing, we decided to sing.. haa.. and after that, i decided to go pack my stuffs.. and i left dar to play with duckie and harmony... I think i am quite blur, Dar hates Harmony. i should have realised that, but i thought to myself.. "not bad, he started to like Harmony and playing with her somemore".. soo i did not suspect anything..........

After i packed finish my stuffs, dar ask me to the computer.. he on the slideshow that we did with all our pictures, with the background music as "From This Moment On".. Dar keep asking me to play with Duckie, and i still suan him say he very childish.. haha. suddenly, i touched something.. A RING!!! i found it in Duckie..!! and dar kneel down, with the music "From This Moment On".... I was really shocked.. i just stared at him and i was super quiet.. but still, i said Yes....

Although the proposal was not a very loud, spectacular event.. Just the two of us. But i still feel sweet.. Dar told me the reason why his proposal is such a sudden and impromptu one is cause, he wanted to propose before we decide to apply for any flats.. he did not want to be like a normal singaporean, to have a flat, propose and hold wedding..

Frankly speaking, i was abit disappointed.. as i always expected something romantic, sweet, and i wanna feel like a princess.. and i alws thought my proposal will be in public with dar singing, with my closest frens around me.. but but. the surpise that dar gave me was really a v sweet and romantic suprise..!! Thanks Dar.. Thanks for everything that you have done... i really appreciate.. sorry for making you sad and unhappy in the past...

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2 pretty receptionists!!

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The couple shagged out after the solemnisation.. finally back to hotel for some rest before going for banquet..

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the girls at My Humble House @ esplanade.. for the solemnisation..

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the pretty bride!!

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the Rbs Brokerage gers @ the groom(Timoty)'s house.. so tired.. ended up we sat on the staircase.. =)

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The flower corsage that Jade personally made for all the 10 sisters.. so nice of her..

JADE'S WEDDING

2009-10-12T05:27:00.000-07:00

Last friday night was one of the few nights that i did not spend with pinkies. Instead, met up with the girls to celebrate our dearest 88s(Chee wei) 28th birthday. and as usual, we were laughing all way.. afterwhich, i went back with huijun and dar picked me up at boon lay. Was super tired, and i still had to pack my stuffs until 2am. And i woke up at 445am on sat!! meaning i slept only for 2.5 hours. I was super shagged. and poor dar, he had to wake up at 5am to send me to Jade's house at Tampines.. He was our chauffeur for the day.!! at 530am, we proceeded to teck whye to pick Xiaowei up.. afterwhich, we proceed to Jade's house. oh ya.. is Jade's wedding!!!

we reached her house at 630am and started with our make-up and hairdo..

By 830am, all of us were getting anxious..!! the groom was supposed to reach at 830am as they had to follow some auspicious timing.. but but.. the groom was late!!! and he reached at 920am!! haiz.. but lucki everything went smoothly... after that, we proceed to the groom's house, den to My Humble house at Esplanade for the solemisation and back to the hotel...

at the hotel, me and xiaowei and adrienne had to rushed to touch up on our hairdo, make up.. and rushed down to the function room as we were the reception for the night.

Although i was very tired.. but but, i feel happy!! the wedding was really smooth. and was a very very sweet and heartwarming event.. the couple was together for like 6 or 7 years?? (forgot the exact years).. and despite their ups and downs, they are married..!! i really feel touched and happy when they walked in to the ballroom together... My dearest Jade is finally married..!! and i can tell she really look very happy!!

After the wedding dinner, i was really totally shagged out. and poor dar.. he said that i actually scolded him cause he wanna try to shift me cause i was sleeping on the sofa. Dar, so sorry!! i think i was too tired.. I dun even know i scolded him.. haha.. sorry sorry.. =)

sunday was a relaxed day.. we relaxed at home, movies and afternoon nap.. after that, we rushed off to Jurong west safra to attend the 21st bdae celebration for my pretty neighbour..!! she is 21!! haiz.. i feel so old when i attended the birthday party!!! i am turning 27 next year..!! keep asking myself, what had i done over the last 6 yrs since i was 21.. hmmmm.... so sad...

2009-10-04T06:52:00.000-07:00

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the 3 pretty ladies... ~~ =)

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the couple on stage!!~~ idea of Rachel Hoh..!!~~ hahahaa

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Dar is red again!! and trying to be cheeky..!!~~

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us @ St James Boiler Room after the wedding..

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vows exchange of the couple

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the pretty bride xia marching in with her father..

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me and Jiao..~~

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The "white" couple...

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me and Dar

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the girls at the solemnization dinner at Orchidville.. For Xia and Wee Keong ROM..

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these 2 girls.. soo bad.. purposely hide behind me..

2009-10-04T06:34:00.000-07:00

Betty Jie and Mingli. =)

2009-10-04T06:33:00.000-07:00

meet up with Mingli and Betty jie at marche.. me and Mingli.. she keep complaining say she is fat! but she is not..!!~~ i look soo big beside her..

2009-10-04T06:12:00.000-07:00

I am old..!!! after a night of crazy night out with pinkies at St James.. I am really tired. slept untill 1pm today...

Anyway.. 3rd Oct 2009... Huixia and Wee Keong Solemnization Party at Orchidville at Mandai.. The whole dinner was sweet and simple.. except for e long winded JP.. ha.. But he was quite cute... Wee Keong and Xia was sweet.. and pinkies as usual, we took alot of photos, with the bride and without the bride.. heez.. and the orchids as a door gift was nice too as we can use the orchids for photos taking!!

After the dinner, as the bride requested for a happening night, we decided to head for St James Boiler Room.. It was really a crazy night.. is been quite a long time since i had such a crazy night with pinkies. We finished a tower of beer before the couple arrived.. and had 2 bottles of Hennesy after that.. and the couple was totally down by 3am i think.. and the killer was the last lamborgini..!! Wee keong immediately puked after he finished the Lamborgini.. hahah.. and according to Dar, wee Keong smelled of vomit when he left Boiler yesterday night!! Although we were all tired, but i think all of us had fun..!! even Wanting and Daixing danced!! so it means we really had fun.. I think after yesterday's session.. i need like a long long while before i will club..

and sunday was a "nua" day for me and Dar.. we stayed home watch hk drama.. and sleep.. eat.. hahah... shall upload some photoss of fri's meet up with Mingli and Betty Jie. and of coz photos from yesterday's dinner session and clubbing session.. =)

2009-09-30T00:35:00.000-07:00

Is now 3.35pm...

I know i should not be blogging......... I should be WORKING... but i am bored....
i have stuffs to finish up... but but.....
doing testing for Census 2010...the next big thing in DOS (department of statistics... ) . haa.. but i think the team is efficient.. They have found most of the errors.. Hence, now.. we do not have much errors.. This is a good thing.. but yet a boring thing.. haha.. meaning.. no more major errors.. but means is not as challenging anymore.. haaa....

anyway.. today is WEDNESDAY!!! is a short day..... so will be meeting up with Dar.. probably for a short dinner.. afterwhich.. home sweeet home to accompany my parents.. mom is lazy today, she refused to cook because she is just back from Genting and she feels tired.. But i haven eat her homecooked food for 1 week!!!
If i am not tired later, maybe can whip up some simple dishes for myself and Dar.. haa.. Provided, I am not tired... (normally i am always tired after work)....

I shall be back to testing now.. Byeeee!!!

2009-09-29T07:52:00.001-07:00

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Photos that i steal from Jiao's facebook.. the pretty babes with the pretty bride..

Weddingssss...

2009-09-29T07:27:00.000-07:00

Over the past 2 weekends, i attended 2 wedding dinners.. I am broke..!! But but, these are happy events!!

21st Sept was the wedding dinner( @ ReGent Hotel) of Jacqie, my ex colleague from UBS... I still remembered she was sitting in front of me in UBS office in suntec when i first joined UBS in 2007 June.. Nice and cute girl.. we spent alot of time laughing in office, going for teabreaks in the pantry, lunching together, dinner sessions after work, taking train home together.... and now.. finally.. she is married, after so many years of dating.. Jac was very pretty on her wedding night, with her hot red gown... and she slimmed down alot..!! girls are really the prettiest on their wedding day... I really hope that jacqie will be happy with her lovely Chin Yong.. and i must mention that.. their march-in is so sweet.. The couple sung while marching in.. i feel soo touched when they marched in... As for photos, i am waiting for my friend to upload into facebook..

On 26th Sept... It is the wedding dinner of Zhengyi and WenYao(@ 1-Twenty Six).. This couple started dating since they were 14! I am really impressed and really happy for them... On their wedding night, i reminded wenyao.. i listened to Zhengyi's stories about for 2 years when i was seated with Zhengyi.. haha.. But i really can feel Zhengyi and Wenyao's happiness when i attended the wedding.. and cute Zhengyi, as usual.. she was super nervous.. I could feel the trumble in her voice when she read out her vows.. But i was not unable to see her expression, hence i do not know if she is trembling or she is crying.. and the evening was good as i managed to meet up with alot of my ex classmates, st john members, swiss people... although there are alot whom i do not talk in swiss, but we still managed to chat abit at the dinner.. atmosphere was good... and met up with people like eileen chuah, belinda, sihui.. everyone had changed, but the feeling was nice... and although zhengyi was busy entertaining her friends, colleagues, relatives.. But i still managed to catch up with her.. i can tell... she was happy.. and one thing for sure.. WenYao will be very nice to her......

And the next wedding i be attending will be one of our pinkies..!!! Huixia!! 3rd October, Mooncake Festival.. This will be a memorial day...
Sall update more after i attended their sweet sweet ROM Dinner... but that auntie xia keep complaining that her gown is ugly.. However i believe all girls will be pretty on their wedding/rom because of the happiness on their face...!! =)

2009-09-27T09:09:00.000-07:00

Over the long weekend... on sat noon.. me and dar were bored... soo we decided.. to go shopping at Queenstown for our winter wear.. haa.. and we bought our down jacket at the winter wear sales... i bought for myself a pink down jacket with some blink blink at the collar.. and dar bought a beige one.. soo excited... and decided to continue to IMM for dinner after our shopping. But dar refuse to try on his winter jacket for me to take photo when we were at home.. he was too lazy and tired as we shopped for one whole day.. hmm..

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me and Xiaomei of Brokerage Team...

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me and my fav ger ah yow...

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I was late for dinner @ Timbre.. hence.. only manage to take a shot with the Bride to be.. my dearest Jade.. she is one of my nicest supervisor in RBS.. life was realli great when i was in her team.. the teamwork and spirit was there.. and she would alws feed us with nice cakes, desserts for teabreak.. and breakfast on my table when i reach.. and nice korean tibits.. glad she will be happily married on 10th October..!! and happie to be her sisters' team and receptionist for the day.. =)

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alice teaching us the techniques of cooking.. imagine wearing make up, tube... while cooking...

2009-09-27T08:52:00.000-07:00

was on half day leave last friday.. for eyelash extension! dar was commenting that i looked like i put on make up e moment i wake up in e morning.. haha.. soo nice. anyway after our eyelash extension.. we decided to have a cooking session at alice's house before i go off for my drinkin session withe the RBS babes at Timbre/Butter...

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me and betty jie..

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me and the pretty bdae ger..

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the cousins unite.. sindy and Ling rushed down after work.. soo sweet of them...

2009-09-27T08:40:00.000-07:00

Met up with Cousin Paulyn last Tues to pass her e singlets from Bangkok... and she complained that i did not update her birthdae pics in my blog.. soo here it goes.. her celebration at Vivo for a simple dinner.. followed by St James..!!~

2009-09-15T08:26:00.000-07:00

sooooooo.... cannot complain i never updated my blog..!!!~~ heez... will continue over e weekends when i am free...

Here comes the Long weekend. !! Looking Forward..........

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and our exciting Bangkok trip in Sept..!!! we will be back to bangkok next year again!! to stock up on our supplies.. hahaha...

we are crazy...

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Dar and me.. our inpromtu decision to go for Ben and Jerry Ice Cream on a sat nite~ heez..

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Malacca trip with daredoers.. is a food trip...!!~~

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Pinkies sucessful BBQ ...

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St James with Eileen... was a "happening" nite...

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me and dar suntanning at sentosa..!! we had to find a quiet spot soo as to hide our ugly fats... we din wan to scare away the tourists... heez

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celebrated my dearest Betty Jie's bdae at Lunar..!! haaaa... we had a wonderful time... until dar smsed me that he is outside to pick us up.. but dar.. i know u care for us..!! haa....

betty Jie is sexy that nite!!

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and finally is the Taurus bdae..!! @ sushi tei.. Poor wyn.. one person celebrated for the 4 of us..!!!

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Wyn's bdae at Brewerkz...

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One Day Tour with my parents.. hot, boring... but satisfied.. as i spent a day with my parents...!!

Me and dearie dad..!!

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The Income gals at Waraku!!

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Ah Mao and Jun's bdae at some japanese restaurant at Millenium Walk. Nice..!!~

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Presenting Wyn and Zhengyu.. the supportive pinkies behind the surprise bdae cake..!!

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surprise birthday cake for dar at our hotel room..!! he was touched. and all thanks to wyn and zhengyu!! heez.. thanks thanks..

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and i bumped into Jasmine at Batam...!! soo coincidence..

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Our romantic candlelight dinner... haa. with the nice Nike couple tee.. but damn sad.. dar lost his tee..... =(

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This picture is abit out... but it lookss cute.. whaahahah.. I know i am Rabbit..

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taking funny photos while waiting for the slow slow Wyn and Zhengyu....

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sexy dar dar @ Haris Batam!!

finally..

2009-09-15T07:33:00.000-07:00

It has been a very very long time since i blogged!! Since January.. believe the pinkies dun even bother to come into my blog to read.. haahha... anyway.. from Jan to Sept.. 8 mths... alot of changes.. the biggest change would be.. i changed job!! from RBS to Singstat.. i would say.. is really a big change, from banking to civil servant. There are pros and cons in the govt sector.. some of the nice things about Singstat are:

1) I can leave on the dot at 6pm!! work life balance.. meaning.. when i am married, i would have more time for my family, my kids... govt sector is very supportive of family life
2) lesser politics? or maybe i have not experienced it..
3) simple people
4) less entertainment... meaning i can save more $$$$.. but this means that my social life is cutting down tooo..... i miss rbs ppl..!! sobzzz..

Apart from change of job... other stuffss remained.. heez.. Dar is still as sweet and nice to me.. Pinkies are still meeting up every friday.. and we are having more and more activities..!! which is good.. and our activities are getting healthier... less of clubbing, drinking.. which is good.. last year was a bad year.. i realised i drink too much..!! due to e excessive drinking session, i looked old and fat!! soo now... i need to lose weight!! i know, pinkies will sure comment that i have said this phrase since sec 2... but this time round.. i really need lose abit of weight.. was looking at my christmas 09 photos.. i really become rounder.. hmmm.. if i dun work hard, me and dar will become two ah fat soon... =)

and I am just back from Bangkok!! Bangkok was fun!! hhaa... bangkok with mao, tien and ah jiao.. crazy shopping, food, massage... happie happie..
and i am gg Korea in Dec!! sooo excited.. this is my first winter trip..!! Will be busy thinking of what i am gg to wear in Korea.. haaha..

went shopping with Dar last sat.. and we tried the winter clothings.. haha. i am soo tempted to get the pink down jacket!! soo sweet.. was thinking.. if will look nice with a white or black turtleneck with jeans and white scarf... with boots.... but but... ended up we did not buy.. alice and yanling wanted to lend me their down jacket.. soo probably will just lend from them.. heez..
and this time round.. this will be the first time i am gg to such a far country with pinkies... will be going with xia, keong ge, wyn and zhengyu.. sooo this shall be something i can loook forward to after the bangkok trip... =)

anyway, i am not someone who loves writing...... shall post some photos of some of the happening stuffss in my life..!!!~~ =)

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And lastly~ Dar is here to fetch us home!! Thanks dar..~~

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The last group photo for the year 2008!!~~

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The cupcakes that Fengjiao made.. thanks ger!!

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us with the accesories that Feng Jiao brought~~

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After dinner, we headed to a KTV pub for our countdown!!

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Our Xmas dinner..~~

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Xmas celebrations with pinkies..~~

Year 2009!!

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Is finalli 2009!!! which also means, i am turning 26!! quarter life crisis??

Is been while i blogged.. was busy with Xmas celebrations, new yr celebrations etc... and now.. i am finally settled down..

Anyway.. year 2008 was quite bad for me.. but everything is over. i hope 2009 will be a good year for me..

My new year resolution:
1) to lose weight.. everyone ard me are telling me that i put on alot of weight. i need to lose at least 5kg

2) to save money!! I realise i spend a lot in year 2008. I really need to save up for rainy days.. Especially with the market now.. retrenchments, downsizing etc.. scary...

3) to spend more time with my family..!!

4) to learn cycling!! and blading...

5) to save enough money for my Korea trip in Dec~~ my first skiing trip~!!

6) no more late nights... To sleep early everyday... In order to retain my youth..

Thats all for the time being.. shall add on to the list if i can think of any..

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